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A pinch of positivity
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Systematic positive programming is the key to success? This is a tough one. Most motivational speakers say it is important to keep your mindset in a state of certainty. This is what I learned and it wasn't from some self help book or seminar, although I think their pretty amazing. During my swimming lessons as is usually the case, i was consistently dropping in the pool like a 10 Ton anchor. I asked the instructor why out of all the people in the pool I seemed to be lacking. He said, move from your core, if your core is weak, you will be inconsistent in your movement. The water wants to automatically propel you forward,the reason you keep sinking is because your core is weak. In life our core is our mental ability, use your mind. The water is the universe, push with what you have, strengthen your core, educate yourself, filter the good from the bad, take action, and let the universe move you. We have to take charge of wether we sink or swim. Sometimes you get water in your nose, swallow a mouthful, but you get right back on learning in our attempts to push forward.
Feeling left out? As though your different.....one things for sure your not a Martian right now. Who knows maybe Martians are actually cool. Youre allowed to feel different and experience that platelet shift of not being like those around you. Guess what? Connection is needed.Venture out seek like minded positive and ambituos people. Dressed up,or dressed down, remind yourself that you are something special.Worthy of love and companionship. Meeting new people can be exciting, it's not always plain scary. Seeing what you have in common with them, inviting them for dinners, parties, keeping them up to date, and hearing their good news. That's fun. We all have moments when we feel left out, or the people who knew us, begin to feel like aliens in our carefully padded world.Talk to the people you love and care about explaining that you feel slightly estranged. If it's not being able to find the time to keep up, make time....there's always a fold somewhere. Reach out
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=Lunchbox+millionaire+ Are you life shipwrecked with no clue which path to take? I call it the vasco da gamma life visit, where everything seems to be shelter skelter, and you find yourself picking bodies apparent, from the chaos. I.e Ex boyfriends and ex best friends, do not check out the lonely hearts column just yet. The universe is telling you something. Human beings are mobile and yet your life is at a stand still, because of the choices you made and the people you invested in. Do not allow yourself to be sucked into an emotional black hole, we invest in the characters that we do because of who we were at the time. Yet you are constantly evolving metamorphosing into a self whose skin you undeniably feel comfortable in, whose ideas you respect, and whose dreams you can believe in. Invest in yourself, in building the trust back up, love yourself, and believe in your potential. Whether you were los